Why would I need to see a life coach?
And, when you’re aware of the hurdles that life is presenting, we can look at the ways that are available to get over them, go around them or remove them altogether.
Because there is a jigsaw piece missing.
Think of your life as a jigsaw - how many pieces does it take to make a whole you?
What happens when a piece of you goes missing?
How would you connect with that missing piece?
Would you recognise that jigsaw piece?
That jigsaw piece could be the gap between your needs and aspirations and the way you are living your life now. The missing piece is the place where your everyday life fails to align with your values and purpose.
And that's where I can help you.
As an impartial observer with professionally developed emotional intelligence and listening skills, I can help you to explore your thoughts and identify where that missing piece is. We can take all the time you need to reflect on your intuitive thoughts and I will hear what you don’t say, as well as what you do.
Here are some of the questions I might ask you;
What would an inspiring future look like for you?
How do you protect yourself by not trying to change?
What are the consequences of not paying attention to what you really want?
How can you get more of what will satisfy you?
By asking you gently challenging questions, you’ll be made aware of the hurdles that life is presenting. We can look at the ways that are available to get over them, go around them or remove them altogether.
Do you feel that your life is missing something but can’t quite pinpoint what it is, or you want to explore the avenues from the crossroads you are facing? Then book a discovery chat with me and find out how my style of exploratory coaching can help you.
What have you got to lose in working on your future whilst living your life?
I know I am capable of more, but what ‘more’ is that?
My subconscious kept trying to shout at me, so I turned up the volume and listened.
Gut feeling. I’ll work it out as I go. Soul searching. Free fall. Figure it out along the way. What else am I capable of? I know I can do more, but what more is that? I just need a bit of space to think.
Do the words above resonate with you? They were on a merry-go-round in mine for about a year whilst figuring out what I should do next.
Five years ago I changed career. Not that I knew I was going to change my career when I left my job.
Initially I thought my path would continue along the lines of being a PA and Office Manager but pivoting slightly in whom I would work for. However, my subconscious kept trying to shout at me, so I turned up the volume and listened.
What was my subconscious telling me? That I was good at listening. I enjoyed looking after my colleagues. I was good at picking up on changes in people’s moods and behaviour. It was easy for me to make people feel comfortable and relaxed. I was good at giving a different perspective on situations. Tuning into my intuition was part of my everyday life. A shoulder to cry on; I supported colleagues in their lows as well as highs. I knew the intricacies of people’s personalities and why that resulted in strained relationships between some, yet was harmonious between others. And a fun part for me; I noticed the colleagues who had started romances with one another in secret!
Put all of that in a blender and this is what I saw emerging: People centred. Behaviours. Intuition. Gut feeling. Perspective. Sounding board. Listening post. Sympathetic. Supportive. Empathic. Straight talking. Emotional intelligence.
What did I do with that information?
I sat on it.
I thought about it.
I talked about it.
I listened to what friends thought I could do with these skills.
I let myself daydream.
Asked myself ‘but what is your gut telling you?’ and ‘what do you think you would naturally be good at’
and most importantly ‘what don’t you want to do’
And it was that last question that gave me the confidence to embark on a new career.
A Life Coach. This role fits me perfectly, and it’s one I know I am great at.
Changing chapters isn’t easy, but if you feel you are capable of more and don’t want to stay cruising in the same lane forever, I suggest taking the time to listen within to see what emerges.
What words are on your internal merry-go-round? If you are still thinking ‘What else am I capable of?’ ‘I know I can do more, but not sure what that more is’ or ‘if I just had a bit of space to think, I would figure it out..’ then book a free discovery chat with me and let’s work out together why my style of exploratory coaching will help you move out of the slow lane.
What have you got to lose in working on your future whilst living your life?